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Having s*x. Being intimate. Making
love. Doing the deed. There are
countless ways to refer to the act of
coitus, but no matter what you call it,
bestselling author John Gray, of Men
Are From Mars, Women Are From
Venus fame, says that there are three
different types of s*x that all couples
should be having.
As Gray explains above to “Oprah:
Where Are They Now — Extra,” each
s*x category has its own distinct
characteristics, and when layered
throughout a relationship, this
approach can heighten a couple’s
intimacy to the umpteenth power.
Here’s what he suggests every couple
include in their s*x life.
1. Romantic “Gourmet” s*x
A decent amount of time, effort and
thought go into this s*xual encounter
— and not just during the act.
Beforehand, Gray says there should be a pre-planned romantic date and
special set-up of the bedroom. Think:
soft candles glowing and sensual
music playing. “You’ve had all evening to build up the tension, and then you release it through s*x,” Gray says. “That’s gourmet s*x.”
2. Healthy “Home-Cooked” s*x
Gray describes this type of s*x as
“your regular, nutritious s*x” that has
fewer frills than the “gourmet” variety.
“It usually takes about 30 minutes,”
Gray says. “A good 15, maybe 20
minutes of foreplay and stimulation…
You do the act, and then you cuddle
afterwards.”
He also suggests engaging in this type of s*x on a regular weekly basis. “You want to get that at least once or twice a week,” Gray says.
3. Quickie s*x
Whether it’s intercourse or oral s*x,
Gray says that this encounter is meant to be fast, even squeezed in between otherwise busy schedules. “It only takes three minutes, it’s just a simple thing,” he says.
Since the focus isn’t on taking your
time, Gray suggests using lubrication
to help speed things up. “Coconut oil
is great for that — it’s all-natural. Even
tastes good,” he says.
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simply known as Yemi Alade, is a Nigerian Afro pop singer. She came into the limelight after winning the Peak Talent Show in 2009. She is best known for her hit single "Johnny".
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